Separating or divorcing can feel overwhelming, even when both of you want to approach it in a calm and respectful way.
Many couples want to avoid unnecessary conflict, protect their children from stress, and reach agreement without the emotional and financial strain of a prolonged legal process.
Separating Together is our modern approach to separation and divorce, based on the Resolution Together model. It offers an alternative route where, in suitable cases, one solicitor advises both of you jointly, helping you resolve matters by agreement.
This is often referred to as the One Couple, One Lawyer approach.
At Blaser Mills, our Family & Divorce solicitors Naim Qureshi and Kate Jones are trained in the Resolution Together model and can support couples in reaching fair, practical outcomes without unnecessary dispute.
What is Separating Together?
Separating Together is a way of working where one solicitor provides joint legal advice to a couple, rather than each person instructing their own lawyer.
It is designed for couples who want to:
- separate in a calmer and more constructive way
- reduce conflict and stress
- focus on practical solutions
- manage legal costs more effectively
- prioritise the needs of their children
This approach supports open discussions and forward planning, with clear legal guidance throughout.
How does the One Couple, One Lawyer model work?
Under this model, you will individually meet with your solicitor for advice so your solicitor can assess whether it will be appropriate to use Separating Together. If suitable, you will meet together with your solicitor, who will help guide discussions and provide advice on the legal framework and options available to you.
Depending on your circumstances, this may include support with:
- Child arrangements
- Finances and property matters
- Separation agreements
- The divorce process and next steps
The focus is on reaching workable agreement, rather than escalating disputes.
What can Separating Together help with?
Separating Together can assist with a wide range of family law matters, including:
- Arrangements for children
Helping you agree practical arrangements, including where children will live, how time will be shared with each parent, and how decisions will be made moving forward. - Financial and property matters
Support with reaching a financial agreement, including property division, savings, pensions and ongoing financial support where appropriate. - Separation agreements
Where couples want to formalise their arrangements, we can help prepare a written agreement reflecting what has been agreed.
What are the benefits of separating together?
Many couples find this approach provides:
- A calmer process, with fewer confrontational steps
- More constructive discussions, supported by legal guidance
- Reduced legal costs, compared with instructing two separate solicitors
- Better communication, particularly where children are involved
A more respectful way forward, helping you move on with clarity and dignity.
Is Separating Together right for you?
Separating Together is suitable for many couples, but not all. It may be appropriate if:
- You are both willing to engage openly and respectfully
- You want to resolve matters by agreement
- You are both able to speak freely in joint discussions
- You are committed to sharing information honestly, particularly regarding finances
If there are concerns around safety, coercive control, or a significant imbalance of power, this model may not be appropriate. Suitability will always be assessed carefully at the outset.
Why choose Blaser Mills?
At Blaser Mills, we are known for providing practical, compassionate advice through some of life’s most difficult transitions.
Our Family & Divorce team focuses on resolving matters constructively and supports clients in exploring non-court options wherever possible. Our Separating Together service is led by Naim Qureshi and Kate Jones, who have completed the Resolution Together training programme and are experienced in supporting separating couples with both child and financial matters.
Speak to our Family & Divorce team
If you are considering separation or divorce and want a calmer and more constructive approach, our team is here to help.
To find out whether Separating Together is right for you, please contact us to arrange an initial discussion with Naim Qureshi or Kate Jones.


